Get Over Yourself!
Why is it that some artists feel the need to demean the work of others to inflate their own egotistical delusions of grandeur? It takes an incredible amount of courage for an artist to hang their work in a public venue and make themselves available for a critique. Maybe it’s because I am still struggling to make a name for myself, but I see no need for anything other than praise followed by a tactful dose of constructive criticism. I have zero tolerance for arrogance and snobbery.
I recently had to grit my teeth and smile through a painful conversation with a well-known regional artist. The discussion made me feel small, and in the midst of our banter I developed an incredible urge to kick this person in the crotch. However, I am not a violent person. I managed to escape the ugliness by keeping my cool, wearing a smile, and remaining optimistic.
I met this artist at a recent opening and politely introduced myself. I should have known there would be a problem when I complimented him on the pieces he had in the show_ he simply smiled and then agreed that his work was even more wonderful than I had proclaimed. This artist (who practices in a completely different discipline than myself) decided to give me an abbreviated and inaccurate course on the history of photography. He then used those historically inaccurate facts in an attempt to convince me that my work was inferior to the work of many others.
I attempted to make light of the comments, casually trying to change the subject, knowing that I shouldn’t create a scene. I could have easily debated every statement he made_ I could have made a real ass of myself_ but why?
Deep Breaths… Count to Ten
Needless to say, I was in a foul mood for the rest of the evening. My girlfriend and I had planned a weekend getaway. There were a few moments following the reception, that I felt myself getting angry with her. Of course, my anger towards her was completely unwarranted.
Anger Management
I typically react to criticism in stages. First is the shock, Second is the Anger, and Third is the reckoning. I eventually confront the situation for what it is, and then I attempt to make something positive from it. I’ve come to learn that criticism (be it constructive or otherwise) will ultimately fuel my drive to create new work.

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